it's been busy that i haven't even thought of things that i'm thankful for these days. but that should not be an excuse to live in ignorance. well, yesterday i met up with a married person had a talk. it brought up an interesting perspective after talking to her about her lifestage.
as i'm in my singlehood, i always thought many of my problems will be solved when i get married. but after hearing what she's been going through as she's transitioning into a married person, it sounds like it's so much harder than being single. although you have the significant other to love and be loved, there seem to be far more challenges when you are joined with another person. i realized that every season is difficult and challenging. even when i look back, i remember the biggest worry in high school was getting into college. in college, the biggest worry was graduating and finding a job. in young adult life, the biggest worry is money and marriage. so i know that each season in life brings new challenges and worries. however, i am thankful that God has been with me through every season. that's how i am where i am today and even though i don't know what the future holds in the next season of my life, i feel secure that God will somehow pull me through once again.
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rach,
it reminds me of something, be honest... this is the 2nd time I ever say this to anybody--that it has been 12 years, I have always thought I'd never get married, still think the same now. haha, i am just weird. :P
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